Heartbreaking Experiences

It breaks my heart when people are enslaved by their fear. It breaks my heart when I see Women being domestically abused and they have to keep quiet because they feel they have to stay true to their marriage vows 'for better for worse....' It breaks my heart when these women create lies of falling down the stairs or hitting their face on the wall just in order to cover up their husband's brutality. It breaks my heart my when I see women being turned to sex slaves, it breaks my heart when I see a bosses project their anger on innocent helps. It breaks my heart when I see little babies manhandled like bags of cement that can just be offloaded or Thrown into trucks by the very women who gave them life. It breaks my heart when I see abused people threatened in order for them not to spill the beans. It breaks my heart when I see children who are meant to be in school hawking on the streets of Ajegunle. It breaks my heart when I see a girl my age being married of to someone who's as old as my father. It breaks my heart when a girl that has been raped cannot speak out because of the stigma. 
To you reading this, whether a girl or a boy, woman or man, never be afraid to speak up because of fear, bottling things up only leads to depression, hatred, bitterness and suicidal thoughts. Never let anyone take advantage of you, never let anyone threaten you, it is always better to get help than to be manipulated. No matter what you are being threatened with, do not be afraid to speak up because THEY always fulfill their threats even when you don't speak up. Mothers beware, giving birth to a child doesn't make you a mother but rather bringing up that child in a motherly way is what does because anyone can give birth to a child but only a mother can raise that child up. Take care of them so that they can take care of you also and not only mothers, fathers inclusive.  Lastly, never believe justice is for the Aristocrats, JUSTICE IS FOR EVERYONE.
#JusticeIsForEveryone.
#SayNoToDomesticViolence.
#SayNoToGirlChildMarriage.
#SayNoToRape.
#SayNoToChildAbuse.
#SayNoToAbuseOfAnyKind.

A Night of Passion

The stare in her eyes could drive anyone crazy, as a matter of fact, she was already driving me crazy endearing me into a moment of lust. All I could think of was making love to her all night, fulfilling all my lustful desires on her. Down under, my third leg was upright already, he was also yearning for it, infact he was the one controlling my every movement and as such all the blood in my body when there. The urge was too much, I couldn't control myself, I knew she wanted it and so did I. I could already feel my hand going under the skirt, this was the moment to experiment all I had seen in the movies(not porno oh). Besides I was a hopeless romantic, so it came to me naturally. Then I realised this place wasn't conducive enough, so we proceeded to a lovely love den, it was magical, her eyes captivated me, that was when I realised what it was to feel like no other person existed just her. I took the first step And she moved along, in my happy head the song "today na today u no go escape, I go put u for corner" was playing. I always knew that one of the ways to turn a lady on was to start kissing her ears and it totally worked, I could feel her knees trembling and I could hear her moaning passionately and just when I was about to lock my lips with her own, she said 'NO KISSING OH, JUST TOUCHING OH'.

My Awesome 2016 and My 2017 Resolutions

Happy New Year guys, it feels really good to make it into this year. 2016 was really a wonderful year even if there were some lows but am still grateful. 2016 was the year I got into the university, it was such a great feeling. It was so wonderful to finally become an undergraduate. Honestly, it was great being far away from home and having a lot of freedom, am not saying I misbehaved because of the freedom oh. My first year in the university wasn't bad at all, I met a lot of wonderful people, my course mates are wonderful, they are more than just course mates, they are family. I also met a wonderful girl who instantly became my best friend, I couldn't have asked for a better friend, she's wonderful, believe me, a boy and a girl friendship can actually work with no strings attached, am a living witness. Before entering the university, I asked God for wonderful roommates and wonderful roommates he gave me. I couldn't have asked for better roommates, it almost looked as if we had known each other forever, we were like brothers and we shared everything together, we even cooked together. I have only few regrets about this year and my first year in the university. My grades weren't also bad at all, it actually felt as if I was going to fail, I was even seen as so unserious to be a law student but in the end, my grades were wonderful.
I know 2017 is really going to be better. I have decided to live this year for God and for myself. I have decided to just live life to the fullest and just be me. Am tired of trying to please people, I also want to become more friendly, am not saying am not friendly at all. I also need to be more serious in my academics because it gets harder as one moves to another level(class). 
Yeah I know am boring you guys with my stories, but time for a little piece of advice. Live and love life, don't give up on your dreams and believe me never stop trying because one day you're going to reap the reward. A saying of mine goes thus 'In life don't think about how many times you have failed, just keep believing that the next trial will be a success' stay blessed y'all. 

Questions That I Ask Myself

Sometimes I wonder and ask myself, what is this life all about? Is Heaven and hell real? What is death like? Where do dead people go to? Is this world actually going to end one day? Seriously, there are times I just think there's no one like God or that there's no Heaven or hell, when I think of all this, I just wonder why Adam and Eve sinned and it is as if I should curse the devil for tempting them but then I remember that there's no need for that because the devil is already cursed, I even ask myself "why can't the devil just repent?".
I also wonder why God allowed Adam and Eve to sin and why he allowed our situation to become like this since He is the One who knows the end from the beginning.Why did He have to allow His only Son to die for our sins when He could just have cleansed us of our sins or why didn't He just create all of us in heaven? why did we have to come to earth? WHY? WHY? WHY? After asking all these questions, I then realise that no one can ever understand or comprehend Someone that created us from dust or Someone that makes the earth His footstool. When I get to Heaven, there are a lot of questions that I need to ask my father and I know that all my questions will be answered.
Wait! am not done wondering, I also wonder why bad things happen to good people and why there are a lot of hardworking people who are poor, a friend of mine once told me that being poor was by choice but that's a discussion for another day. I also wonder what ETERNITY is like, are we just going to be worshipping God forever? is there a NEXT WORLD on earth? I pray we all make it to Heaven, Amen.


 





 

My Wonderful Two Weeks Break

Am back to school after just spending two weeks at home but I can't complain. Even if the break was short, I really had fun, spending time with my family and also spending time with friends from secondary school was really amazing. It was actually really nice seeing my guys from secondary school and also knowing that I have really grown was wonderful. Back in the days I used to be the shortest boy in my set but now am taller than those who were taller than me before. I even had this friend who made a bet with me that if I became taller than him he was going to me a hundred and fifty thousand Naira(#150,000), funny enough am taller than him now. One thing I realized is that this black boy has a late growth, I actually started growing in all sense of the word when I was fifteen. I actually don't consider them as friends but as my family. We actually had some crazy moments in secondary school. I remember those days when made cornflakes in a bucket and started to share among ourselves. We always said our secondary school days were boring but we have a lot of crazy stories to tell.
My sisters and I might argue sometimes but we still love each other and that's what makes us a family. Yeah, am the only boy in my life and I have three lovely sisters. The value of family cannot be overemphasized because family is worth more than a million, we have our biological family and also our non-biological family and they are both important. Our non-biological family consists of our friends who are so dear to our heart. 
I really hope this semester is better than the previous. I plan on reading more. I seriously need to cultivate the habit of doing intensive reading. I have never really loved reading but I know that for me to become a successful lawyer, I have to work harder. I have just been back to school for some hours but I already feel like going home. I remember those days in secondary school when I was resuming a new term or session, whenever I came back to school, it was as if I should run back home and the funny thing is that when I am at home, I will wish for school to resume but when school finally resumes, I want to run back home.
We should always try to cherish every moments we spend with our family and friends. Thank you very much and take good care of yourselves, I remain 'Dat Black Boy'.

Welcome Note

Hello everyone, welcome to my blog. My name is "Dat Black Boy" but seriously sometimes I wonder if am supposed to be taking myself as very black because people like all those Kenyan athletes competing at the olympics make me have a rethink of my skin color, there is black and there is blackkkkkkk and there is also darkness. The truth of the matter is that BLACK is beautiful and there's no denial about that. 

Back to business, at this young age of my mine I have experienced a lot of things which I believe will help others, hopefully. Life has thought me a lot of things, am almost 100% sure that we were born into families so as to have people who will always be beside us in sickness or in health for richer or for poorer, don't worry am not a marriage officiator. But seriously one's family is really a pillar of support, they are the people who we can really rely on anytime, they are the ones who are willing to share our problems. Pardon me I can get sentimental atimes.   

Okay so the value of family is one of the things I hope to talk about also I plan to talk about having God in one's life, yes oh! am also spiritual I plan on becoming a pastor that's if God ordains me. Infact I think you guys deserve to know a little about this "black boy". I love food but I don't have a favorite food just give me any delicious food and I will do a clean swoop, I love playing football but football doesn't like me that's why my favorite sport is table tennis. I believe one shouldn't care about what people say because whether you do good or bad people will surely talk, also, don't try to copy others because if you do, their limitation will be your limitation and why copy others when you can do better by being yourself. 

Also, on this blog I won't like to be the only one doing all the writing, I will really appreciate your comments and also your experiences and also your philosophies about life. Thanks in advance for all your contributions and Kenyans no hard feelings we are all Africans. I remain "Dat Black Boy".